Aulia's ToothFairy :)

Assalamualaikum w.b.t...

Well, when Aulia' 1st tooth came out about few months ago, I have no idea that I have to brush her tiny little teeth. Now that she starts to eat solid food, I decided to introduce her to a tooth brush..

I came across to a baby store  (http://babymanja.com) nearby my house last weekend and I'm thinking about to buy a tooth brush for her.

I finally manage to get this one:

The Tommy Tippee Training Set. It consist of the Gum Massager, Massaging Brush and First Toothbrush.. I don't think that I have to buy an outrageously-priced one. This Tommy Tippee Tooth Brush Training Set is only cost me RM12.90...

Instead of using the First Toothbrush, Aulia' like to use the Gum Massager. She like to bite and chew it. Oh well, she gets too excited about is!  Thinking about her brushing training, I didn't manage to get the suitable edible tooth paste for her. And..I didn't actually put on any toothpaste on it. I just let Aulia' chew it.

Now, I'm trying to show some brushing video like Elmo's brushing to Aulia' so that she can repeat the action.

Life isn't easy for a 'single mother'

Assalamualaikum w.b.t..

Sometimes there are circumstances that arise in which a married couple will find themselves having to be separated for long period of time, at least geographically. Hafizzudin went for outstation for 6 months, starting from this month until February next year...

Well, he have been married for almost two years, and this is the first time that he leaving me and Aulia' for his job assignments..This is not very easy at all..

*PillowTalk*

The night before he went, we do chit chatting a lot..we haven't sleep the whole night! Talking about those days when we were not yet married..on how we survived the long distance relationship..Yep! that was easy! I'm in the same industry, so a double dose of understanding. Someday, I'll quit my job and go hang with him all the time. We'd probably kill each other. But, honestly it's different for different people. I know from his actions being apart that he will always thinking about me and cares about me and Aulia'. Since we've been married, we talked a lot..and laugh a lot..Without laughing this would be very very hard.

*'Single Mother'*

Being a mother + long distance marriage or even being alone/single + long distance marriage both isn't easy.. but it is harder if you are a mother..caring a child alone by yourself is really tough enough. Some of my friend says they really respect people who can survived P.J.J (Perkahwinan Jarak Jauh)...or I can say Long Distance Marriage. Yep! To maintain this relationship also isn't easy. That's the other matter. Being a 'single mother' is also challenging..The first day when I was left alone with Aulia', I have to woke up very early in the morning, not because of the house chores but I have to rush to work. . Imagine, to travel from  Langat to Phileo 2 is really pushing my guts to stay cool in the massive traffic jam. So I really have to come out early in the morning and send Aulia' to the nursery. and pity my child that I have to left her damn so early! And I even came back late from work! Arrhh... pity my child! Sometimes its happen that when I went to work, Aulia' is still sleeping, and when I came back, she already slept. Do you know how does it that feels? Its like I'm a terrible mother..*tears*

*Constant Communication*

My husband, the romantic. It can be tough not having him home most of this time. I like having him home. I mean, I married the man after all. Last night he called and lodge a complaint.."You didn't text me the whole day today"..and I was like "Huu.. Sorry I was so busy, I had meeting the whole day, that's why.." and the conversation ended up like that..he knew that I am busy working mum + have to take care of Aulia', I almost died in a plague and no one here feels sorry for me. My life dude, it is hard..

Well, my life isn't hard..My husband's life on the other hand seems unbearably cruel to me. He' separated from the people he most loves in this world so that he can provide for us, myself and Aulia', and for our collective futures. He works unending hours at the construction site, surrounded by other people who are in the same situations, all of them trying to cobble some sense of family together while separated from their loved ones.

And..I don't spend enough time thanking him for that..

So the next day, I called him and says that I promised to call him every day..

There are benefits to having an absentee husband. You'll know that he's missing you and that's make your both love become even stronger!

Still, come home soon my husband...Aulia' is starting to asking about you..

U'll gonna be missed!

Assalamualaikum w.b.t..

Dear Atikah,

Well , this is it. We all knew it was coming. No, don't cry. Really stop. Everyone's looking. You're making a scene. Here, wipe your nose; there's snot everywhere. Not, it's not you. It's me..Sobs!

The first day when you came in to the office as my internship trainee..and I was like "Heh model mane nak jadi intern aku nii?!"

Then I was told that you are actually the chemical engineering student from Uitm..and I was like..Errh okay! Here she is..your majesty is finally arrived after I've requested for an intern trainee for 2 months!

She drove me loopy. I've got used to her over the second quarter of this year..It's been like having an entertaining Tigger-like present in the office and I'm going to miss her..today is her last day..I'll miss the round of applause she gives each member of the team when they come back to their desk from a meeting , getting a drink, the toilet..I'll miss the teasing that she was so good at. She actually thinks that I am 21 years old and bachelor. Haha screw you poophead! I'm 27 and married. Plus..I have a 1 y/o baby..

And I'll miss the insight into the her mind of 21 year old..actually, some of that I won't! I will miss seeing her words of motivation and notes though. And her update on each new dress on the Pop Look (She actually think I'm gonna spend all my money everyday by shopping online,,screw you again poophead, I'm gonna save the money to buy a new car..haha!) .

This appear on her desk early on:

Although we won't be seeing your face around the office any longer, we will sure keep in touch and admire your creative talent from afar..Good Luck for your final year project..tata!!

The Pop Look

Assalamualaikum w.b.t..

Hello Darls..

So this is my not so latest crave!.. The Pop Look..this crave has been going on since early this year.

Many have been asking about this Pop Look especially those in the office who been asking where the hell I bought all my blouses and dresses..so you can find it here...http://thepoplook.com

What I can say about this is that the material is very comfortable, and most important is the service were superb..two thumbs up!!Harini bayar..and tomorrow..already on your desk!

I wore one of the dress that I bought from ThePopLook on the 3rd Day of Raya..easy, sarung and jalan!

So happy shopping ya all!