Sunday, December 25, 2011

Majlis Kesyukuran, Cukur Jambul & Berendoi Nur Haninda Aulia'

Assalamualaikum w.b.t..

Since there's no other school/ working holiday for everybody, Opah and Atok decided to do Cukur Jambul ceremony on 25th Dec.Its a Christmast day..The ceremony was in Ipoh.
All relatives were invited as well as Nani and Atok Hulu Langat..The preparation for the ceremony was so biasa2 je..xdela grand party sgt.. But Ibu really loves her Buaian Berendoi..Kalah mak!






Ibu only manage to prepare some door gift for the kenduri...All D.I.Y.. thanks to http://parteesandsuch.blogspot.com














So the ceremony started with the arrival of Jemaah masjid nearby Opah & Atok's house..There was about 40 of them..
After all our relatives arrived, the ceremony started with Berzanji, Marhaban, & Selawat..  Aulia' was very good by sleeping beautifully in the Buaian.. Papa swing Aulia patiently..



Then its was time for Cukur Jambul ceremony..Aulia' around the Jemaahs for cuttin' Aulia's hair..


Both Aulia's Atok take turn to cut Aulia's hair.. and everybody take their turn as well including Opah, Nani, Opah Zan, Opah Nyah, Tok Andak, Opah Andak, and all the Surau's Jemaah...
Ibu almost shed ibu's tears because Aulia being very good & didn't cry at all..


After the ceremony ended, all guests were invited to enjoy their lunch. While eating, we've ben entertained by Gendang & Kompang..macam kenduri kawen la pulak kan..Ibu Jeles!! Seriously! Ibu & papa didn't even have gendang & kompang being played when we got married..







But Ibu & papa is happy for Aulia'. As the 1st grandchild in the family, this ceremony will be remembered forever..And as for Aulia', Ibu & papa wish you be a good girl, obey to Allah s.w.t, your parents & to ever. we always pray that you will success in your life. Amin!


xoxo ShemaAulia'

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Birthday Me..

Assalamualaikum w.b.t..

Happy Birthday to Me! Few years back, my day would filled with a lots of birthday wishes, presents & birthday cards...

Things were different now..

Let say I expect these:

1) My friend SHOULD return favors
2) Other people SHOULD appreciate me
3) my HUSBAND SHOULD buy me Jewellery

These expectation may sound reasonable..But often, these things won't happen! So I end up frustrated and dissapointed..

There's a better strategy. I make fewer demand Instead, have preferences!

A: A birhday cake, Birthday card, flower & Jewell
B: A whole body massage

For things that are beyond my expectation, I tell myself "I would prefer "A" ,,But if I get "B", It's Okay too!" 
In this way, I have more piece of mind...I prefer my husband would buy me a birthday cake with presents, but when he's not, it doesn't ruin my day.. I prefer sunshine, but Rain is Okay! So I get a body massage with a wholehearted birthday wishes from my husband at the end of the day:) After all kalau beli cake it is only both of us gonna finish it..


I woke up everyday chooses to be happy. What can possibly hurt me now? What can worry me now? Life is like a movie-its not the length but the quality that matters. I think there is no secret to happiness. I just choose it. 
Another year to step forward. I have my luvly husband and an adorable daughter with me. Thats matter!



Happy 26th Birthday to me:)

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Baby Blues

Assalamualaikum w.b.t..

Recently I'm kinda having a baby blues. Not enough sleep, body all stressed out, sleep deprivation & frustration...
After Aulia's 1st month Hep B injection, we went back to Ipoh. Its amazing how spontaneous milestone develop even though having all the baby blues. Seeing her smiling while sleeping would make me forget everything about the pain & sleeping disorder. The wonder that comes with welcoming Aulia' is completely breathtaking, she is someone I have carried and is now the most intimate relationship I ever had in my life! It's a happy miracle..

Aulia' was having problem with breastfeeding on the left side. But I'm not taking that as a serious problem as I can feed her on bottle.

What I was concerned about is her sleeping training..My mother in law says do not try to impose a sleep schedule as she need to feed every few hours, around the clock. What I have to do is just respond promptly to her cries, feed and comfort her, and try to sleep when she does to minimize my own sleep deprivation.

Now it's Opah turn to take care of Aulia'..

Friday, September 2, 2011

Doa Diberi Keluarga yang baik & Kedudukan



رَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا

.. "Ya Tuhan kami, anugerahkanlah kepada kami isteri-isteri kami dan keturunan kami sebagai penyenang hati (kami) dan jadikanlah kami imam kepada orang-orang yang bertaqwa." 

Tuesday, August 30, 2011

Aulia' 1st SYAWAL

My little Aulia' is celebrating her 1st Syawal at Hulu Langat, Ampang. Since I'm still in my confinement mode, we are not going anywhere and just waiting for our relatives and friends to come and visit us. Since Aulia' is a newborn cute little girl, she earns a lot of Hari Raya Angpow, which will be her future saving.

Aulia' was wearing cute pink dress, while papa and Ibu wearing gray matching traditional outfit...

Since this is the first time I'm getting new dress Raya for Aulia'..let me share this website where I bought the dress..love the designs + SazzyF pon beli baju #imanlilytiararose kat sini jugak...*wink:)


My Little Family:)

xoxo ShemaAulia'

Sunday, August 28, 2011

Nur Haninda Aulia' 1st Zakat Fitrah

Assalamualaikum w.b.t..

Since Aulia's was born on Ramadhan month, hubby now has new responsibility; Zakat Fitrah for Ibu and Aulia'...

It is getting closer to Hari Raya. Tonight is the last night for Terawikh prayers. And tomorrow will be the last day of Ramadhan.. Together we pray that we can make it to meet the next Ramadhan. InsyaAllah..


Wednesday, August 24, 2011

The day Nur Haninda Aulia' was born

Assalamualaikum w.b.t...

On August 13th 2011 was the day I woke up with these strange feeling. It was Sahur time when I realize I had a palm-like water at my pajama I was wearing. It wasn't painful but it was different.

My baby's due date was August 27th so I'm pretty close to the date. But hubby had to work that day so I just decided to wait for him until Berbuka time. Pretty amazing I'm fasting on that day.

So on the night after breakfast, we went to the hospital and they said "Yep,you're in Labor!". But they need to observe the cardiotocograph chart and scan for any liquor leaking.

So on the early morning of August 14th 2011, I remember it clearly when the doctor said my amniotic sac leaked for more than 24 hours..my baby might be in danger and need to undergo a surgery. It went pretty fast..and hubby look so panic more than I do. Rase bersalah sebab pegi office jugak bila dah tau bini nak beranak!

The doctor on duty was my old friend at school. Dr.Ida Julaili -she was the one who explaining all the operation procedures while the nurses take place to change my clothes and attach all tubes to my body.

That then I was so panic when they brought me to the labor room. I really have no ideas whether I can make it or not. That was the only chances I can seek forgiveness from hubby and everyone.Tears! The surgery wasn't so easy for me as I had twice injection at the spinal! Ida hold my hand just to make sure that I'm conscious during the operation.

I did it all on Lower Segment Cesarean and by 1.20 p.m. Nur Haninda Aulia' was born. At 2.43 kg she was just the right weight. Everything went wonderfully.She was this little amazing girl with thick hair and dark brown eyes. It was a great day,all praise to Allah. 

I remember I was so hungry about 6 hours after I delivered her because they couldn't let me eat all day. That night went pretty good. She slept well enough to get some rest. But we had to stay few more days and nights in the hospital  so the next night was trouble. It was a crazy thunderstorm so all you heard was thunder and lightning flashes through the window. The spine pain start to appear. 

But Aulia' was a good girl. She slept beautifully and really give me a relief for having a good rest.






























 My dearest Nur Haninda Aulia' Binti Mohamad Hafizzudin was born on 14th August 2011 @ 14 Ramadhan 1432 Hijrah,  1.20 p.m. on Sunday via Lower Segment Cesarean Section. Ibu & papa loves You! we hope we can make it to educate you well and be a truly Muslimah. We pray for you every single day and night!





Thursday, May 26, 2011

Gaining Weight!

Assalamualaikum w.b.t..

Every single night being a very shiny, bright day for my baby in my tummy.An exhausted night for us, a sunny day for her. I just assume it is a 'her', a mum's guts-feel i guess. Feel her kicking hardly only get my eyes stare as she make fishy moves in the tummy. Indeed,its amazing! The one that can not be experience by Mr.Hubby even the size is about the same. LoL!

Today, which exactly 7 weeks pregnant,which almost 6 months and 3 weeks gained me 6 kilos extra right after the day one of my pregnancy. I think that's A LOT! No wonder I heat like a hungry tiger.

Oh ya! I think most probably I would be in the hospital on this coming Raya.I just don't know that yet but I'm pretty sure the delivery date is closer to Hari Raya. So no Hari Raya dresses, no Rendang, no Ketupat.. I better eat everything that I can before I can't.

Here I go,,eating like a hungry tiger again! Be good to ibu my baby girl!


Monday, March 21, 2011

A Mom-To-Be

Assalamualaikum w.b.t..

I think this is the most shocking news for both of us since the day we got married. A happy news!

      I'm 16 weeks pregnant! When I had my ultrasound initially, we only saw one sack, one baby developing. And I almost cried when the doctor show me the heartbeat. This is the most miracle things happened to me; having a baby in my womb. Now she started to grow, grow and grow.


Being in the 1st trisemester is the most challenging moment for me. Its so overwhelming-yet amazing-transformation. Continuous vomiting for almost everything I ate was probably due to my hormonal changes. My heart pump faster and harder, my pulse quicken. I do experience the heartburn and constipation until there was one day I've been admitted into the hospital.

          The doctor said it was natural to worry about my baby's health. I lost few kilo's during this 1st trisemester. I hardly eat anything-worried if I vomit again! going to work everyday make me so tired once i get back home and do nothing. I cant even cook and do all the house work. Lucky I have my husband by my side. He's the one whom do all the cooking no matter what time he gets back from work. After all, life is not tough enough without having someone kick you from the inside.

Counting days to days, I'm moving forward to the 2nd trisemester. Today, its almost 4 months. My appetite getting better, and I eat a lot!! Seldom vomit anymore. I gain weight and my tummy started to bump out. But not that obvious. From this time on, I just wanted my baby to be in a save condition and I started to feel she moved.

And we also start looking for our baby names..if my baby is a boy we would like him to be named as Muhammad Zarif Alaudin which mean a good protector & smart..and if its a girl..the name should be Nur Haninda Aulia', means Light=Nur, Haninda=longing, Aulia'=Allah's noble ranks.
In-sya-Allah..Amin!



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